Wednesday 31 October 2012

Children as pawns



Parents should not make their children pay for their mistakes, children have the right to know and see both of their parents. Of course a parent can make decision concerning a child when they are still young and they cannot decide for themselves, that is where it should end.

The least a parent can do is be honest to the child, making statements such as “my child will never have contact with his father nor his family “this is just being mean and heartless, children should not be used as pawns in your struggles, imagine once your child has grown and has a child only to find out the father of the child is her own brother. What would happen then? What would you do?
 
 Ok  I will agree that we as ladies, sometimes fall pregnant so that we could trap or trick the guy into marrying us, this is pathetic and it should not be the case, if he loves you he will marry you whether you are pregnant or not.  And once things don’t go according your plans, you punish the guy but not granting him the access to his child, but on the real who are you punishing the child or the father?

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